There are times in our life where we feel we are alone. That no one cares or wants us. That we mean nothing to nobody. And that the world may just be better off without us in it. These are our tough times we may go through in life. I am here to let you know that you are not alone.
In the past I have felt like this too many times. But getting past this feeling has made me stronger, a fighter, and more independent. So, I am going to speak to you through my experiences and help you out. As I am being guided to do so.
The lonely elder person, their children do not go see them or that often, yet they keep living. The person that is going through hell, gets up every day and still lives their life. The child that no one wants to play with, that suddenly has so many friends when they are older. They waited for this….because they believed it would happen for them some day. The woman that cries because her ex left her for someone else, gets up every day, and goes on with her life the best she can. Taking each day a bit at a time. The man that cries because the love of his life is not with him, yet he gets up every day and smiles because all he ever wanted was her to be happy. And even though it may be with someone else…..she is. These people are examples of standing alone even if you have to. But standing alone strong. Because you can get through these tough times.
Ending you life because you are not receiving the attention you want, or because you aren’t with the person you want to be with, or because you don’t feel you are good enough……know that is not the way to get through it.
You feel alone, yet you are not alone. There are others who have gone through these tough times and gotten past them. And you can too! Think of who you would leave behind. Think of your children and how it would affect them if you were not alive. Think of your loved ones, and how they would miss your presence. Miss talking to you. Seeing you. Hanging out with you. Hearing from you. Their love means a lot…doesn’t it? You may think…”they don’t care about me?” Yeah?! Think again. Most people do actually care what happens, if you were to live or die, even if you are not with them. I am one of those people who care like that. Why you ask? Because it’s how I am and it’s how I will always be. You have a gift of living a human experience as a spiritual being. Learning lessons along your life path. Sure there will be bumps and obstacles along the way, but life would be boring if we didn’t have some type of challenges along our path. Theses bumps and obstacles help us learn our lessons we are faced. And all we have to do is get through them. If we need help, all we have to do is ask. I know, that may not be easy for most of you. But, trust me….if you ask, there will always be someone there to help.
In the past I have faced pretty tough challenges. Some where I went into a dark place. Never thinking that I would get out of it. But I did with a bit of help. We realize that life is too precious to give up. And that we shouldn’t give up! That our loved ones matter to us. That our life matters to us. That no one is worth ending our life for. And if you don’t realize this. You should. Do not give someone else that control to make you feel like nothing is worth living for. Because there is so much to live for!!
Think of what you be missing out on. Your kids first day at school, their graduation…their whole life. You be missing out on experiencing life at a whole new way. Reinventing yourself or becoming the real you that you may have hidden for many years. You might even miss the chance to be with your true love of your life. Someone you may not even know yet. Or someone you already know, and thought you may never have a chance to be with them again.
Take your life by the reigns and live it proudly! Be the real you and let nothing get in your way. Be your true self. Socialize more. Connect with people. Make new friends and reconnect with any old ones you miss seeing or being around with. Live the life you always wanted. But live it! Let go of any past mistakes, wrong turns you might have made. And let go of the past. You can not change it or relive it. You can only be present and go forward. I know you can do this. But the choice is always yours. I just pray you make the right choice…….and live! Stand alone if you have to. And stand strong. You don’t need anyone. You are amazing all alone. You just have to see this for yourself.
In love and light,
“Never forget how far you’ve come. Everything you have gotten through. All the times you have pushed on even when you felt you couldn’t. All the mornings you got out of bed no matter how hard it was. All the times you wanted to give up but you got through another day. Never forget how much strength you have developed along the way. – Unknown Author