We all have gone through times where we feel lost. And we don’t know how to get out. Sometimes we are there for a short time. Sometimes it is much longer. It is only up to you to get out of feeling lost.
I have heard all too many times of people feeling lost. But found themselves with the help of others. These people turn to others to guide them out of the darkness they are so lost in. I have been those people that people turn to. I have been this person for years. Where so many are lost. They are needing to confine in. They are needing to get secrets out and things off their mind, so they can sleep better. So they can feel a bit of relief. But, the part they don’t know is…..they did it all on their own.
I have a way to get people to see that they are not lost. That they don’t need someone with them, to find themselves. That all they need is guidance. It is something I have done for years. I just have this way of helping others. And I love helping others like that. It is so beautiful to see someone truly find what they thought they lost within themselves.
Recently, this happened to someone I love very dearly. We reconnected a few weeks ago. He was lost. But found himself, more so while just being around me. Although I know he still needs to work on himself, and he is doing just what he needs to do. And at his own pace. He was lost for so many years. Trying to find his long love in someone else; a long love that he let go of so long ago. He felt like he lost parts of himself, that she always showed that he had within him always. He felt like he lost part of his heart. Part of his inner being. His soulmate. The one he let go of long ago because he was scared of how much she cared and loved him. She too felt lost though. She felt she lost her chance of her happily ever after. But it was her that had to also find herself.
We can not be loved or love someone else till we love ourselves. We can try all we want, but it just won’t happen. It will not be ever the love that we are looking for.
She has taken years to find herself. To know who she is, what she wants and who it is she wants in her life. She no longer feels lost. And she is helping him find himself even more. Helping him see what she sees.
We are not lost. We only feel like this because of certain events that have occurred in our lives. It is only up to us to find our way out of the darkness, out of feeling lost. We can reach out to others that can help guide us. But, understand once they guide us out, these people might have to leave us till it’s time for them to return and help us again. And sometimes we are lucky. Because these people stay with us. And we continue to work together helping each other out of any darkness and into the light we so deeply long for.
This couple I am talking about. I know them all too well. Because I am the girl. I was once lost for so many years. Thinking and feeling I will never get out of feeling like this. And feeling like I lost my chance at happiness. But once I changed my way of thinking. Changed some things in my life. And let go of people who no longer served a purpose in my life, I began to be able to find myself. And I am happy of the person I am today. I love myself. And this is what I needed to do. I needed to be happy with myself in order to be able to give and receive love. The love I want in my life. This man I talk about, I also know him too well. For he is a soulmate of mine. We dated in 2002. Only to find each other again. He left me back then, because he was scared. But now, he no longer feels scared. No longer feels lost. He found what and who he was looking for. And he still continues to find himself.
For the person he was looking for in another….was me all along…..
And if you know this…..we can never find someone in someone else. You feel lost without the person. Okay, I understand. But, I ask you this. Find yourself. Get lost in your own self. There you will find what it is you are looking for. And who. And there you will see…..you are not so lost as you think. So look up and see the stars. And you will find your way.
In love and light always,