What if’s and is it meant to be?

Many of us ask ourselves the same question. What if? We ask this when we are faced with a difficult or tricky situation. The thing is, we ask this when things have already played out. We can not change the past. We can only change the present and change our path for the future if needed.

We are told that if it’s meant to be, it will be. Most people are impatient. We can not wait till we have what or who we desire. But, if we rush….we can change the timing for everything. The day you decide to go out for lunch. And as you are eating, your past lover walks in. And you remember everything with them. Maybe they were the one that hurt you so bad. And instead of saying hi, you choose not to. Maybe they were the one that got away. And you wish that things turned out differently. You look at them and say hi. And talk for a bit. But, then you part ways again, hoping to see them again soon. Months or years later pass by, and then it happens again. You bumped into them. You start to talk again and then it’s like, things pick up where you both left off.

You question, what if we didn’t bumped into each other? What if he or she never messaged me? What if….? Okay, think about this for a minute. What if it was meant to be that you were to be there at that time? What if you reconnected and started to talk again? What if you both not only remembered how it was with you two as a couple, but you start to think that this person deserves a second chance? What if they are thinking the same thing? What if they are thinking….will he or she give me a second chance? What if the person says no?

You don’t know unless you take the risk and go find out the answer. If it’s meant to be, it’ll be.

What if you took that chance and it was meant to be? Maybe it wasn’t to work out back then because you both were not on the same page. Maybe it’s because you both needed to grow within and mature. Maybe it’s because…..it’s just all in Divine timing.

Divine timing is not time we can control. Not something we can manipulate to our own timing. It is something that is timed perfectly, so that all can work out just as it’s meant to be. Because if we tried to control the outcome, it would not work out as it should. And maybe that’s just the way it’s suppose to work out. We may not see how things are playing out in the right timing. But maybe we are not meant to see it. Not till it’s time. And then….we see it. And we understand why it had to work out just as it did.

So stop thinking about the what if’s. If it’s meant to be, it will be. And it’ll be all the worth while that you waited patiently for it. Nothing is ever long lasting when we rush. Don’t rush. Take your time. And be in the present moment.

In love and light ,


“What we find in a soulmate is not something wild to tame but something wild to run with.” – Robert Brault

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